Organizational Tools for the New Year: Communicating Time, Schedules, and Calendars to Neurodivergent Kids
Communication can be so, so hard. Countless books are dedicated to supporting communication; in couples, families, corporations, and beyond. One way our family tackles the communication struggle is through communicating our schedule - often and in multiple ways. This can be so helpful for our kids - espescially with multiple neurodivergencies that can make abstract concepts, like time, difficult to grasp. It feels like time is one of the basic concepts of life, and should be easier to grasp than it is. I think back to the Mitch Album book the Timekeeper... a great read where "Father Time" is punished for trying to measure God's greatest gift. And then to John Mark Comer's the Ruthless Elimination of Hurry, where he quotes the Roman comic playwright Plautus: "The gods confound the man who first found out how to distinguish hours! Confound him too who in this place set up a sundial to cut and hack my days so wretchedly into small portions!" I often wish we could go back to days where rather than our lives being ruled by a clock, our time was ordered by the natural rhythms of the earth. Rather than schedules and appointments based on hours and minutes, we'd wake when the sun rises, eat when hunger comes, work while the sun is up, and sleep when the sky grows dark. But alas, our employers and doctors and family and others we interact with probably wouldn't appreciate that system very much. =) So how does our family handle timing, appointments, and the like? Espescially in a world where being more than 10 minutes late can mean you forfeit your scheduled appointment? Well, I can't say we're often or ever on time, but we do consistently show up where we're expected, albeit a few minutes late. To [...]